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stop playing with expectations, live, laugh and love



A reminder that you don't have to wait for someone to water your flowers for the garden to grow. " You are fully capable of bloomy on your own "

Life is simple, everything happens for you, not to you. Everything happens at exactly the right moment. Neither too soon nor too late, you don't have to like it. It's just easier if you do! So when life is good, make sure you enjoy and recieve it fully. And when life is not good remember that it will not last forever and better days are on the way.

My life changed when i realized
● People are not intentionally trying to hurt me - they are to keep themselves safe in the ways, they know how.
● Love can be communicated in languages beyond words and these languages are just as valid.
● Magic happen when your values, thought and actions align
● The judgmenet i have for others directly reflects area that i continue to judge myself.
● The acceptance i have for others directly reflects, the acceptance i have for my self.
● This is my life - i decided the meaning i make the story i write, the purpose i choose



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